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Sunday, February 13, 2011

Valentine weekend

It's Sunday night and I am back home. Hard for me to believe that it isn't Valentine's Day proper yet, as we've been celebrating it all weekend and my heart is already full to bursting. :-)

I went to John's Friday night, bearing Valentine treats. There were the homemade brownies (and balloon!):

The card with just the right words:

And of course, these:

He presented me with a one-pound satin-heart box of See's chocolate, which is my favorite chocolate on the planet. We happily tore into it later that evening. I still remember all too well the many weeks where I could barely get John to eat a few spoonfuls of soup, so it gave me joy to see him scarfing brownies and chocolate.

Saturday we took his mother to lunch; I was comfortably dressed down in black jeans and a plaid shirt, but underneath I had on my sexy kiss-print panties and a bright red bra. Once we got the filial duties out of the way, the rest of the afternoon and evening was ours. Driving back to John's place, on the winding canyon road, we saw two deer grazing off to the side. There was no one behind us, so we stopped right in the middle of the road and watched them. They didn't get spooked, just looked back at us with those huge eyes. Wish I'd had my camera then! John said he arranged for them to be there, as part of Valentine weekend (sure, honey). And that it was damn hard to get deer to cooperate, because, well, they're deer.

Of course, later, we got pictures. Me, being Ms. Cheesecake:

Then after dressing for dinner, I was sitting on the bed buckling my shoe, and John said, "Don't move!" (He did, however, adjust my skirt, lifting it up higher on my leg... humph!) :-)

He looked quite spiffy himself:

We went to one of our favorite restaurants, a place called the California Canteen. Wonderful food, lovely atmosphere (not too loud!) and great service. Our table was directly beneath this sign:

We were seated at a rounded corner booth, so we could sit together. After we ordered, John told me to close my eyes. ??? Roses, chocolates and this beautiful dinner... there was more?

I love watches. I know that people don't wear them much anymore, now that they have the ubiquitous cell phone with the time handy, but I love to wear them. John got me into vintage collectible watches a few years ago; he's given me several different ones since then. Each one has been unique and goes with different colors/styles. Sure enough, when I opened my eyes, there was a jewelry box in front of me.

The accompanying card read: "You are the best and the most beautiful; you deserve the same."

When I was young, I dreamed of nights like this. I thought they existed only in commercials and fantasy stories. Or perhaps for other people, but never for me.

Damn, but I love this man.

(many thanks to Zelle for "doctoring" this pic for me a bit. John had an obtrusively glaring light over his head.)

After dinner, we went to another favorite place, the Aroma Café, and shared a ginormous piece of German chocolate cake. Stuffed and happy, we headed home. No... no Valentine spanking. His energy level is still low. BUT... he's finally starting to exercise again, which he hasn't felt like doing in months. The itch is still with him sometimes, but it's slowly fading away and he's sleeping better. As for future heart surgery... not going to think about that now. I'm staying in the moment.

And tomorrow, on actual Valentine's Day, I get to have a Valentine-red bottom from New Guy. Am I spoiled all to hell, or what?

Thanks for bearing with my mush, folks. I promise my bitchy, cynical self will return. For now... she's quite overwhelmed.

Hope everyone has a beautiful Valentine's Day. :-)


  1. ahhhhhhhhhhhhh!!! What a great weekend! That John is just the dearest, sweetest man in the world! How thoughtful he is.. ♥HIM! -- you too ya spoiled lil bee-otch! (said in a very loving way of course!)!

  2. Zelle -- thank you, sweetie! Believe me... I take none of this for granted. Not one minute. :-)

  3. Hi Erica,

    Happy Valentine's Day! This is my first post. You are a very sweet lady.


  4. Annapurna -- thanks, and welcome. :-)

  5. That sounds like such a perfect day. I had wondered how it would work today (for me it is Monday) and if you would have to miss New Guy but I am thrilled to see that you get everything. I like it when a girl gets everything. You deserve to be terribly, terribly happy.
    Those pictures are wonderful. Zelle is a clever thing to be able to doctor pictures- a terribly, terribly useful skill.
    Have a wonderful day.

  6. Poppy -- This Valentine's Day, I have hit the jackpot all the way around. I'm... rather speechless. Thank you for your kind wishes, and if I could, I'd share my "choccies" with you.

    Yes, Zelle is indeed talented with Photoshop, and many other things!

  7. Sounds like such a wonderful weekend Erica. Pictures are great and you look lovely in your red dress.

    Happy Valentine's Day.


    I love to wear watches as well :)

  8. Erica, I am so happy for you and John. What a lovely time and it continues today with New Guy. I guess it's true a girl can have her Valentine's Day cake and eat it too. Just so friggin' happy for you!

    And while I love the hardass (both physical and figurative) Erica, there is a lot to be said for this soft-center, mush filled Erica. :)

    Great pics of you both especially the one of you putting on your shoes. That John certainly has an eye.

    Happy Valentine's Day!

  9. Happy Valentine's Day, Erica! I envy you a bit because Ludwig and I live in a long-distance relationship and right now we are several hundreds of kilometers apart. But luckily sexy chats on the phone can be nice, too... ;-) Enjoy your Valentine's Day spanking from New Guy!

  10. Sounds like a perfect Valentine weekend.

  11. Happy Valentine's Day Erica...hope you have many more just like you described :-)


  12. Thank you for sharing your joy with us. I wish you the happiest of Valentine’s Days.

  13. What a wonderful week-end, hope that today will continue in the same way.

    Happy Valentine's day!!

  14. Hello my Erica all i can say is WOW :-) I am VERY happy for you. you look VERY BEAUTIFUL and STUNNING in your red dress, John is a WONDERFUL handsome man :-) i LOVED your pics you and John look ADORABLE together :-) what a LOVELY weekend you both had. have fun with NG tonight your bum is going to be red like a valentine's heart hehehe. Happy Valentine's Day to you and John. i Love you big hugs from your naughty girl Jade xoxo

  15. How very wonderful for you two! That makes my heart soar, really it does. You truly are the best and most beautiful. :-)

  16. Ronnie -- a fellow watch-lover! I heard that watches are going to become obsolete, but I sure hope not!

    Michael -- you are so sweet. Yes, it's true. I'm as mushy as a See's buttercream on the inside.

    Kaelah -- I hope you get to see Ludwig soon! In the meantime, just knowing he's there, hearing his voice... that is worth a great deal.

    OBB -- it really was.

    Rob -- thanks, and the same to you!

    Burl -- thank you. It was my pleasure, believe me! :-)

    Raven -- well, the "red" theme will certainly continue. :-D

    Jade -- thanks, sweetie! I'm glad you enjoyed.

    Devlin -- thanks, my friend. Nahhhhhhh... Poppy is. :-) I know she feels well loved today.

  17. Erica,

    I am so happy for you. Happy Valentine's day and have a good time tonight. I expect the "grinch" will be back tonight? :-P Couldn't resist. LOL

    You look so beautiful in your red dress and I love the pictures of you and John. I wish for both of you to have many more weekends like this one.

    Enjoy the anticipation of tonight. Have a lot of fun.

  18. Bobbie Jo -- hmmmmm... Grinch, no. Brat, probably. :-D Thank you! I am having quite an amazing few days.

  19. It's a wonderful thing to overwhelm a cynical woman. John sure seems to treat you right, as you deserve, and I am so happy for the both of you!

    And to top it all off with some red-bottomed fun tonight? Sounds perfect.

    Happy Valentine's Day, Erica!



  20. My thanks to John, whose thoughtfulness, humor, dedication and discipline (in all forms) serves as an inspiration to the rest of us men! Great job!

    Thanks, too, to Dr. Zelle, photo domme! :-D

    And, certainly, thanks to you, Erica, for sharing these lovely moments and even lovelier pictures!

  21. Pink -- you too! Here's to good men, like D and John and New Guy.

    Wolfie -- it takes one great guy to recognize another. :-)

  22. You being Happy makes ME smile!

  23. Glad you had a wonderful Valentine's Day, Erica! Love you!

  24. Craig -- thank you, sweetie! Love you too. :-)

  25. Erica,

    Happy Valentine's Day! The panties are cute and I love, love, love your red dress! You look amazing in it!


  26. Beth -- thanks, and same to you! Isn't that one heck of a dress? Eve Howard of Shadow Lane actually bought that for me a while back -- she has such lovely taste in clothes.