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Monday, July 30, 2012

"So, Erica, how was your Monday?"

It was certainly different. I was a bit nervous. I felt a bit out of whack, no pun intended.

But I had fun. :-)

I don't know what I'm going to call him yet. What was it that Hermione called him -- Mr. Possible? Yes, definitely. I asked him if he was OK with my blogging about him, and he said absolutely.

No, we didn't play. In some ways, I wanted to. But I knew I simply wasn't ready yet. So, aside from a few test swats on my shorts, we refrained.

Instead, we talked, and talked, and talked some more. Asked questions. Talked about experiences, preferences, limits. I was comfortable enough to sass him a bit. I asked if he'd read my Friday blog, and he said, "No -- what did you say?" And I told him to go read for himself; I wasn't telling.

He said he'll remember that. Yeah, whatever. :-)

We watched a couple of my DVDs, short ones. He enjoyed them a great deal, which made me smile. He even watched one of the videos with ST. Watched our chemistry, saw our closeness. I know he won't compete with that. He is who he is, and ST is ST. Separate people, separate interactions. I showed him how to navigate FetLife; he'd just joined.

He was sweet. Kept checking in with me, asking how I was doing, how I was feeling. Very much into communication; I do like that. Reassured me time and again that it was OK we weren't playing, he was simply enjoying hanging out with me and getting to know me better. I felt the same.

Three hours later, he was going to head out. "So," he said, looking me straight in the eye, "let's see how kinky you are."

Oooh. A challenge. "Yes?"

"I want you to go into the bathroom, take off your shorts, remove your panties, put your shorts back on, and bring your panties to me."

Well, now. Interesting request. And yup, it gave me a little zing. "OK," I said, "but the shorts are staying up!" "Understood," he answered.

So I went into my bathroom, slipped off the shorts, then slid down the little orange-and-white striped thong. After putting my shorts back on and buckling my belt, I went back out to the living room.

He held his hand out, and I put the panties in them. Closing his fingers over them, he smiled and said, "These are going home with me."


He promised to bring them back next week. And then take home the pair I'm wearing then.

I guess I'm kinky, because I thought that was hot as hell.

At the door, we hugged. He told me he'd had a great time, and thanked me for having him over. Then he added, "And please tell John thank you for being OK with this." Yes. I'm a lucky woman, having a man who trusts me and grants me this freedom. I never forget that.

No pictures tonight, of course. Not sure when I'll have those pictorial blogs again. But it's one step at a time, and so far, so very good.

I will miss that deep, lingering soreness tomorrow, and that sleepy, dreamy bliss that never lingers long enough. But perhaps next week, we can make that happen. :-)


  1. So glad to hear that it went well and that you are taking things slowly.

    And I bet you will spend a great deal of time choosing your panties next week. :P

  2. Sounds like a great start to a new spankship! :)

  3. That was a promising start with a very hot ending. I'm looking forward to reading about next Monday already.

    How about calling him MP for short?


  4. I think I like this guy's style. Glad you two had a good time. Maybe, building on Hermione's suggestion, this guy could be "Mr.P". The "P" could stand for either Possible or Panties, given his kink/interest.

  5. If you really want to end up face down, next week when he asks for your panties, hand him your laundry basket, smile sweetly, and tell him 'no starch, please!' LOL! But seriously, that was pretty hot.

  6. Sometimes I think I know women and then something happens... I would have guessed that him asking for your panties would be considered really strange, but I am wrong again.

  7. Ana -- oh, you know I will. ;-)

    Kelly -- I think so too.

    Hermione -- LOL... well, that's a better idea than PP (for Panty Poacher). :-D

    Anonymous -- Possible, Promising or Panties. Perhaps!

    Karyn -- ROFL! Oh, I like that.

    OBB -- on a vanilla date, it would be majorly creepy. But in this realm, whole different story. Also... John took my panties home after our very first meeting, nearly 16 years ago. :-)

  8. That was hot as hell! I think he's a keeper. I so much admire your courage and willingness to explore and seek. I'm not being sappy. Yes I am being sappy. It's my damn comment, I can be sappy. I think I'm about 4 years older than you so I can't claim a generational difference. I don't have your cojones. I've been very lucky in my tiny life to meet a few people who knew me when I didn't know myself.

    I know you call yourself a late bloomer. But jeez! When you figured it out you sought and you got. Bout to get really sappy here. Put up the sap shields.

    I'm so proud of you. I didn't hook into your blog right away cause it was so foreign to me. But I'm so proud of you representing and putting up your beautiful self and your beautiful body. Young women need to see a woman like you. They need to see how beautiful and alive you are so they don't get caught in our culture telling them at a certain age they're invisible and the rest of those things.

    I warned you this would be sappy.

    Happy birthday coming soon.

  9. Emen -- well, dammit, woman. You just made me cry. Thank you. Very, very much. ♥

    But let's not rush that birthday, K?

  10. Hi Erica -- I am so happy thing's went ok for you :-)What a great start :-)The panty thing was hot as hell hehehe LOL.MP sound's like a good name for him :-)MR.POSSIBLE OR MR.PANTY :-)much love and hug's from your naughty girl Jade

  11. Jade -- we'll see what name/initials morph for him. I'm waiting for the creative spanko muse to strike. :-)

  12. "I will miss that deep, lingering soreness tomorrow, and that sleepy, dreamy bliss that never lingers long enough." You and me both! I could use some of that already this week. Glad your first meeting went well! Interested to hear what happens next week! ;-)

  13. Lea -- we shall see. Now I just have to get through this week.

  14. I'm so happy that your first meeting went well. I think he sounds lovely. Look forward to reading about next Monday.


  15. Ronnie -- I hope I will have something good for you. :-)

  16. So many people confuse rough physical play with pain. You know the difference, and I am truly sorry that you must be experiencing true pain. I hope it helps you to be able to post your hurt and know that so many people care about you and wish you well.

  17. Anonymous -- there is good pain and bad. Lately, it's been bad. But it does help to talk about it and get support, so thank you.

  18. Oh my! Not to coin an Olympic phrase.. but frankly.. "LET THE GAMES BEGIN" (now!) LOLOL
    OK, I must confess.. at first, lets just say my initial instinct was like OBB .. as I thought, "Oh man! He's gonna go home and jack off while sniffin' my panties!" (ewwwwwwwwww! creepy! so soon!) LOL

    Then I realized... "Hey! We all have our own kinks that float our boat! Why should I diss his kinks when I've got some weird stuff of my own I like, and someone else might get squicked out at that! So, when it's just something as simple as wanting to see if you'd comply to the panty request - it wasn't that big a deal!" -- I could certainly block out whatever happens to them once they went from my hand to his.. in the end.. not a big deal really.. and frankly.. I also got a little tingle reading his request of you!

  19. ps.. "MP"... (More Panties) .. hahaha!

  20. Zelle -- believe me, I wouldn't have given them to just anyone! lol He was so un-icky about it, just kind of matter-of-fact and a bit challenging, and I was up for it! :-)

    1. And yes.. I do KNOW how you love a challenge. ;)