tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post821111882607674112..comments2023-06-07T03:40:11.408-07:00Comments on Erica Scott: Life, Love & Spanking: An informal poll for my readersEricahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-8197214883480072062015-01-19T17:49:51.745-08:002015-01-19T17:49:51.745-08:00Ron -- just make sure the other person you say it ...Ron -- just make sure the other person you say it to really IS another spanko, or else those walls shoot up fast!Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-42079349047151875282015-01-19T17:49:18.200-08:002015-01-19T17:49:18.200-08:00Oh and I just love the pictures of your bottom esp...Oh and I just love the pictures of your bottom especially in a panty, well spanked!<br />Always<br />RonNjspankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07839344536156873192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-79029481509137279712015-01-19T17:47:49.961-08:002015-01-19T17:47:49.961-08:00OK, simple answers, I love spanko, totally explain...OK, simple answers, I love spanko, totally explains us.....and funny when you say the word to another person, one who is a spanko, well walls come down.<br />Always<br />RonNjspankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07839344536156873192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-25884854147323743802015-01-12T16:12:46.239-08:002015-01-12T16:12:46.239-08:00Beth -- yeah, I don't know either. Maybe somed...Beth -- yeah, I don't know either. Maybe someday a new word will develop.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-42933135304280297092015-01-12T15:48:21.688-08:002015-01-12T15:48:21.688-08:00I always thought spanko was short for spankophile....I always thought spanko was short for spankophile. I don't particularly care for the word spanko but I think it's probably the term that best describes our niche fetish. I wish there were a better word, but I'm not sure what that might be.Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06734158295884957309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-49105880348756568682015-01-12T10:37:07.801-08:002015-01-12T10:37:07.801-08:00Enzo -- in trying to explain to vanillas, I don...Enzo -- in trying to explain to vanillas, I don't think there's any term out there that would make them get it. Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-14085429416501774492015-01-12T10:18:26.111-08:002015-01-12T10:18:26.111-08:00I spank, therefore I am.
Not fond of any of the ...I spank, therefore I am. <br /><br />Not fond of any of the titles honestly, and haven't ever really heard one I like. Within those who know of spanking, "spanko" is fine. If I am trying to explain to someone who is not into spanking the allure of it all I would not use the word "spanko". It is to similar to "psycho" which to many outside the circles, a much too close judgmental connection.<br />Enzohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11556688278392257042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-74023750018428288172015-01-12T07:09:34.835-08:002015-01-12T07:09:34.835-08:00Erica: I think that is why the word peg has been a...Erica: I think that is why the word peg has been adopted. Maybe the artificial cock is an appendage, who knows, but it removes the word ANAL, which has negative connotations.<br />Spanko is too close to sicko and psycho, and is something done with love or at least affection, with terms as Jade/ Emily Jean talk of a nice red bum, and I would definitely vote for spankster, which has a wonderful connotation, similar friendly thoughts when you know someone who might be called a hipster.<br />bottoms up<br />RedAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-86645698780442654372015-01-11T22:33:19.791-08:002015-01-11T22:33:19.791-08:00smuccatelli -- I think I chose to say "kinkop...smuccatelli -- I think I chose to say "kinkophile" because it was a broad term and left things open, but it's probably not accurate. I'm not really into other kinks. I've dabbled in several, experimented, etc., but spanking is what really flips my switch. TTWD is good, if you want to say, "I'm into..." rather than "I am a..."Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-12260163727604981952015-01-11T22:28:37.463-08:002015-01-11T22:28:37.463-08:00I noticed that you self-identify, in your descript...I noticed that you self-identify, in your description at the beggining of the blog, as an "outspoken kinkophile". Are you just using that a term to identify as a spanking enthusiast or are ther other "kinks" you participate in? I think "spankophile" is a sophisticated term, but as an identifier, especially in a more public space or amongst people who you may not want to be to self-descriptive, that it's a little TOO revealing. I like "TTWD". You can, if pressed, reveal what the letters stand for and then make something up for what the "thing" is, unless you're entirely comfortable around the people you're with. THEN you can call yourself a spanko or spankophile!smuccatellihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03711275763426307424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-29383269123807937212015-01-11T21:54:52.729-08:002015-01-11T21:54:52.729-08:00Mike -- no worries. :-)Mike -- no worries. :-)Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-90948391306016321382015-01-11T18:37:08.746-08:002015-01-11T18:37:08.746-08:00Whoops! Color my face red. I hit "publish&qu...Whoops! Color my face red. I hit "publish" too soon. I forgot sign my name.<br /><br />Mike Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-8147651670647123202015-01-11T18:35:47.079-08:002015-01-11T18:35:47.079-08:00Eve Howard uses the term "spanking enthusiast...Eve Howard uses the term "spanking enthusiast". That's a little too wordy for me. I personally prefer the term "spanko" but then I'm not on FetLife and the only time that I use the term is when I'm posting comments here. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-76323851508914761672015-01-11T16:53:53.715-08:002015-01-11T16:53:53.715-08:00Jade -- actually, I've heard "spankster&q...Jade -- actually, I've heard "spankster" before. It works.<br /><br />Anonymous -- *shuddering*Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-43724549075649549222015-01-11T13:45:49.014-08:002015-01-11T13:45:49.014-08:00I think the term "pegging" might have or...I think the term "pegging" might have originated with the practice of sitting on (or otherwise using) a wooden peg for stimulation.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-10532882066251206392015-01-10T22:23:55.129-08:002015-01-10T22:23:55.129-08:00Hi Erica -- I consider myself a Spanko because in ...Hi Erica -- I consider myself a Spanko because in my heart that's what I truly am,even though I don't live it 24/7 either :-) I am a spankee cause I only get spanked.I like your pic it's so cool.nothing like a nice red bum :-) What do you think of the word Spankster? It's something I made up LOL :-) It sounds kind of stupid though.Much Love and hugs from naughty girl Jade/ Emily Jean jadelyn1975https://www.blogger.com/profile/01227913685563205943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-79954802440300538062015-01-10T15:02:26.016-08:002015-01-10T15:02:26.016-08:00Poppa -- good for you!
Hermione -- whoops... I di...Poppa -- good for you!<br /><br />Hermione -- whoops... I didn't realize you'd already covered it with your brunch chat. As for WordPress, the only reason why I'm considering it is because Blogger is so big-brother-ish, and seems to be getting more so. We'll see.<br /><br />Jon -- I guess "phile" might be a bit too sophisticated, but I do like it. :-)<br /><br />Baxter -- yeah, probably not a good idea with co-workers. ;-)<br /><br />Red -- how the hell did "pegging" become the term? What do pegs have to do with it? (shaking head)Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-46083393417272979272015-01-10T12:11:31.293-08:002015-01-10T12:11:31.293-08:00I do agree with the idea that blogger is annoyed ...I do agree with the idea that blogger is annoyed with you, because their are not enough pictures of your red bare bottom. Why else would blogger be annoyed with you. <br />I personally do not like the term spanko, as it is too categorizing, and a negative tone. We should all keep searching for a better word.. <br />Anal sex became pegging, and pegging is a great word.. whereas anything that starts with anal is derogatory.<br />bottoms up<br />Red<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-60306104540119790422015-01-10T08:41:24.021-08:002015-01-10T08:41:24.021-08:00Love that red bottom picture. Beautiful.
As for ...Love that red bottom picture. Beautiful. <br /><br />As for the word, it is not something I say to anyone any way, but I know in my heart that I am a spanko. It suits me. If someone did ask me about spanking, I might be inclined to say I am a spanko. But conversations with friends/coworkers rarely get into the topic realm of sex or spanking. <br />BaxterBaxterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04746017492426748867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-66866914464572212942015-01-10T07:24:52.996-08:002015-01-10T07:24:52.996-08:00I already know you don't like caregiver < &...I already know you don't like caregiver < > caretaker but I like them. No chance in a zillion years that spanko will morph into them, either. A "-plile" is more sophisticated than an "o". Too much sophistication for everyday use?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07111109586526724959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-2399275369925150772015-01-10T04:53:05.037-08:002015-01-10T04:53:05.037-08:00Hi Erica,
I didn't see either the adult warni...Hi Erica,<br /><br />I didn't see either the adult warning or the other Blogger warning when someone complains about offensive content. You have been healed!<br /><br />I wouldn't change to WordPress. I have a vanilla site there, and it is definitely not as user-friendly as Blogger.<br /><br />Now, to answer your question. I had a <a href="http://hermionesheart.blogspot.com/2014/05/recap-spanko-brunch-20-for-may-4.html" rel="nofollow">brunch discussion</a> about this word in the past year, and there were a lot of opinions about the word. Personally I didn't like it at first, because it seemed rather slangy and derogatory. I'm quite used to it now, and it no longer offends me, but I prefer spankophile.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />HermioneHermionehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15395671806340391253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-73175960113269729842015-01-10T04:39:58.420-08:002015-01-10T04:39:58.420-08:00I offered to give a nice lady that works at plaza ...I offered to give a nice lady that works at plaza I maintain a birthday spanking as it was her BD. She asked me if I really did want to spank her and why. She was obviously curious but in this worl climate you had to be careful.<br />I simply told her I was a spankophile and the offer still stood. She just nodded sagely at that statement. She drive by me house on her way home and to my surprise she stopped that afternoon.<br />Long story short; she wanted to know what a Spankophile was and did. <br />So I showed her. <br />At 40 years old she got her first fun spanking, a fantasy she admitted she had never acted on before.<br />Yeah; for me; Spankophile fits.<br /><br />PoppaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-83694617302603772922015-01-09T16:02:19.932-08:002015-01-09T16:02:19.932-08:00Anonymous -- WHAT whomping? Bleccchhhhh!
Michael ...Anonymous -- WHAT whomping? Bleccchhhhh!<br /><br />Michael -- I'm very proud that I didn't have to look up oenophile. :-D<br /><br />Kelly -- I get that. I certainly don't live it 24/7, myself, but I do consider it enough of a part of my identity that I like an easy name for it. :-)Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-1038643649169849862015-01-09T15:47:40.936-08:002015-01-09T15:47:40.936-08:00I am indifferent to the term spanko when I see it ...I am indifferent to the term spanko when I see it in print. But I don't feel the need to identify myself as one. I simply say I love to get spanked, or I'm into spanking. Possibly because it's mostly been a passionate and very fun but also a very small part of my daily life. To me words like spanko/kinkster/fetishist, etc while NOT at all offensive to me are almost by my perception-fully engulphing a person's identity as though they live it 24/7. I don't live that way and maybe that's why I have no need to label myself. LOLKellynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-45709369103729629362015-01-09T15:23:44.849-08:002015-01-09T15:23:44.849-08:00I tend to think of "Spanko" in terms of ...I tend to think of "Spanko" in terms of Bibliophile and Oenophile (two other communities that I'm proudly a part of). It's concise and differentiates the most important and longest standing aspect of my overall kink. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08043894445868348150noreply@blogger.com