tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post3089438834309502580..comments2023-06-07T03:40:11.408-07:00Comments on Erica Scott: Life, Love & Spanking: Not the best of weeksEricahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-20541664009555949912014-12-29T15:23:59.473-08:002014-12-29T15:23:59.473-08:00Kyrel -- thank you. It's never too late to say...Kyrel -- thank you. It's never too late to say something nice.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-45502060935415215892014-12-29T13:31:44.859-08:002014-12-29T13:31:44.859-08:00Late to the "party" as usual it seems, I...Late to the "party" as usual it seems, I'll be brief. I'm sorry to hear about your stepfather :-( It's never fun loosing anyone you care about, and I'd argue that it sucks extra to loose them right around Christmas. Basically my sincere condolances.Kyrelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04225817580793824731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-5970445269916981032014-12-24T12:03:38.298-08:002014-12-24T12:03:38.298-08:00Lea -- thank you, dear. I do hope he knew. Lea -- thank you, dear. I do hope he knew. Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-58175395416848606812014-12-23T23:06:42.501-08:002014-12-23T23:06:42.501-08:00I'm so very sorry to hear this. As you wrote, ...I'm so very sorry to hear this. As you wrote, there are no good times for such a loss but the holidays are especially brutal. And I know your general feelings about this time of year to begin with. :-( You've shared many good memories of M. It sounds like he lived quite a life. And surely he knew how much you loved him. <br /><br />My condolences to you and to John. I hope things can be settled within his family civilly without adding even more grief and stress to the circumstances. Big hugs.<br />Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08935712285136696225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-90794713463550575162014-12-23T20:30:53.261-08:002014-12-23T20:30:53.261-08:00Kelly -- yeah, some of the platitudes are a bit mu...Kelly -- yeah, some of the platitudes are a bit much. I know they are meant to be kind and comforting, so I don't argue or berate, but really, all you need to say when someone dies is "I'm so sorry for your loss. Is there anything I can do for you?" Period.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-71528521888519509562014-12-23T20:15:46.433-08:002014-12-23T20:15:46.433-08:00I'm so sorry for your joint losses. It's s...I'm so sorry for your joint losses. It's so much harder when you have a genuine affection for someone even though people try to make it better by saying "at least he/she lived a long life". It still blows when you loved them dearly. Kellynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-68292268293696694912014-12-23T13:15:25.667-08:002014-12-23T13:15:25.667-08:00KB -- it all helps. I feel the support in waves. T...KB -- it all helps. I feel the support in waves. Thank you.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-39175907155445480802014-12-23T06:34:40.778-08:002014-12-23T06:34:40.778-08:00Oh Erica I am so sorry. I know that doesn't he...Oh Erica I am so sorry. I know that doesn't help but really I am. Take care of yourself this week. Create your own island where you can curl up with a book and do things that you enjoy. I will be thinking if you. KBnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-24231687106364282392014-12-22T23:11:37.947-08:002014-12-22T23:11:37.947-08:00Bobbie Jo -- thank you.
Rubysue -- what is it I a...Bobbie Jo -- thank you.<br /><br />Rubysue -- what is it I always used to say? You're a gem. And I'm sorry for your losses as well.<br /><br />Jade -- thank you; it's unfortunate that things have to happen all at once sometimes. I'm sorry for your pain.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-84476956621287575152014-12-22T22:00:26.363-08:002014-12-22T22:00:26.363-08:00Erica and John -- You both have my condolences :-(...Erica and John -- You both have my condolences :-( I can't believe all this is happening all at once, It's Very unfair.this made me so sad :-( I am so sorry that you both have to deal with this. My beloved Grandmother always said that some kind of tragedy usually happens before a holiday.She was so right.I am having problems dealing with her death it's a freaking nightmare :-( May your Stepdad and Johns Mom rest in peace. I care about you both. Sending you much Love and hugs always from naughty girl Jade/ Emily Jeanjadelyn1975https://www.blogger.com/profile/01227913685563205943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-22363810549854587252014-12-22T19:47:00.711-08:002014-12-22T19:47:00.711-08:00Erica, I saw this link on Fetlife and I thought I&...Erica, I saw this link on Fetlife and I thought I'd check in. I'm so very, very sorry about what you and John are dealing with, especially on top of the holidays, which I know are a bitch for you anyway. I'm glad you and John have each other to lean on. Please know you are in my thoughts. I've lost both my parents in the last few years and it's not fun. I know it's been a couple of years since we've seen each other, but you two have always been so nice to me and I don't forget things like that. Many, many hugs to both of you. Love,RubysueRubysuenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-23741054165211608852014-12-22T18:29:03.559-08:002014-12-22T18:29:03.559-08:00(((HUGS)))(((HUGS)))Bobbie Jonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-39603913769755709982014-12-22T18:10:33.928-08:002014-12-22T18:10:33.928-08:00Annie -- thank you so much.
Joe -- we love you to...Annie -- thank you so much.<br /><br />Joe -- we love you too, and thank you for your sweetness.<br /><br />Wolfie -- you're very dear.<br /><br />Six -- thank you.<br /><br />MaMa -- thank you, sis. ♥<br /><br />Hermione -- I appreciate the kind thoughts, thank you.<br /><br />Jay -- I loved your post about focusing on a good memory. I will do my best to honor that.<br /><br />smuccatelli -- I do like the sound of a spa day. I'll probably have to keep it to just a pedi, though. My funds are severely depleted after my most indulgent surgery.<br /><br />Ronnie -- thank you, dear.<br /><br />MrJ -- truthfully, I want work. It helps distract me and makes me feel purposeful, you know?<br /><br />Hal -- we will.<br /><br />Jon -- a day at a time is all we have, after all. Thank you.<br /><br />puggybear -- thank you for the outreach and the kind words.<br /><br />Jada -- aw, we miss you. Thanks.<br /><br />Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-30638225785542801422014-12-22T12:53:29.313-08:002014-12-22T12:53:29.313-08:00Offering my sincerest condolences to both you and ...Offering my sincerest condolences to both you and John. Thinking of you both and wishing you comfort.<br /><br />JadaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-62449693195524844032014-12-22T11:17:06.249-08:002014-12-22T11:17:06.249-08:00Although you don't know me I've been a fan...Although you don't know me I've been a fan of yours for a long time. The classiness of your writing and the way you comport yourself should be a lesson for all young ladies in the scene. Please accept my condolences to you both in your time of sorrow. I look forward to meeting you one day.<br />puggybearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16678818475828054155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-34153108481618997272014-12-22T10:12:32.963-08:002014-12-22T10:12:32.963-08:00Erica, yours are shoes I've not completely wal...Erica, yours are shoes I've not completely walked in. Just one loved one's sudden death is a hole in the shoe, a hole in the (my) soul. Two such people is beyond my full comprehension. Two things I can say are time worn but I believe true. First, it is absolutely okay to feel all the "bad" emotions, the anger, rage, fear, depression etc. Second, limit your horizon to the present, live one day at a time. <br /><br />Plus, comfort John. With my hugs and shoulders to cry on, JonAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07111109586526724959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-7523403342891126472014-12-22T09:38:29.764-08:002014-12-22T09:38:29.764-08:00Erica and John
First, take care of each other. S...Erica and John<br /><br />First, take care of each other. Stay strong and life will continue. Losing is never easy, but the two of you can do it. Hal Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-16857805321677409852014-12-22T09:00:08.785-08:002014-12-22T09:00:08.785-08:00Dear Erica,
I am truly sorry for John and you. So...Dear Erica, <br />I am truly sorry for John and you. Sometimes just too much for one week occurs in seven days. May good memories and you being close to each other be some comfort. <br />I wish for no work until 2015, and merciful loads after then - as well as real health again for John.<br />Solid hugs. <br />MrJnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-19083924111048317532014-12-22T08:26:42.301-08:002014-12-22T08:26:42.301-08:00Erica and John,
I am so very sorry, such sad news...Erica and John,<br /><br />I am so very sorry, such sad news. My heart goes out to you both.<br /><br />Love and hugs,<br />Ronnie<br />xxronniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16402712634206383021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-84754810163783188822014-12-22T07:37:47.875-08:002014-12-22T07:37:47.875-08:00Dear Erica:
My condolences to both of you. You&#...Dear Erica:<br /><br />My condolences to both of you. You're right in that losses during the holiday season are that much more difficult. There's something... DARK, about sadness and loss this time of year, but it does happen and there's little one can do about it.<br /><br />I don't know your financial situation but something to consider, when you get the chance, is to pamper yourself for a day. A nice spa day; hot soak in a bubble bath, a full body massage, maybe a nice mani-pedi (for you at least) and try to set your troubles aside for a while. Maybe even a good meal with some good wine. It might make you feel better and let you decompress a little. Couldn't hurt anyway... ;-)<br /><br />My best wishes for both of you.smuccatellihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03711275763426307424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-57468146697990544012014-12-22T05:12:33.923-08:002014-12-22T05:12:33.923-08:00Erica and John,
I'm so sorry for your losses...Erica and John, <br /><br />I'm so sorry for your losses. My heart goes out to both of you. Like some from our community advised me, be easy with yourselves. A lot of us seem to have lost people this year. The holidays are a time for remembering the good times with family and friends, even when some of them are no longer with us. If you ever want to talk, just send me an email - I'm here.<br /><br />Love and hugs,<br />JayJayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18040670158317646418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-7280987213903186112014-12-22T04:52:13.126-08:002014-12-22T04:52:13.126-08:00Erica, this is very sad news. One death is hard en...Erica, this is very sad news. One death is hard enough to take, but two in a week is devastating. I'll be thinking of you and John.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />HermioneHermionehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15395671806340391253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-63927689315403042172014-12-22T02:58:04.660-08:002014-12-22T02:58:04.660-08:00Sending you many hugs across the miles. Much love ...Sending you many hugs across the miles. Much love to you both!MaMa Bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14122978071519777115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-71080853444609212942014-12-22T02:27:09.493-08:002014-12-22T02:27:09.493-08:00Erica, as Shakespeare once said. "Sleep, perc...Erica, as Shakespeare once said. "Sleep, perchance to dream". Still life goes on, and will forevermore for all of us. Which includes all of us 'spanko's. Yes, all of us are saddened by the news of your two deep losses this week, XXX Love yasixofthebestnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-83475026660800869272014-12-22T01:28:19.650-08:002014-12-22T01:28:19.650-08:00Words fail me. That's too much grief all at o...Words fail me. That's too much grief all at once, and I'm very sad to read this, Erica. You've mentioned your stepdad a lot through the years, and his fine qualities. I don't recall that much about John's mother, but obviously she had a lot to do with the outstanding man he became, which says a lot. The world is a much emptier place. My heart goes out to you both, and I'm glad you have one another for comfort. Dave Wolfehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11417833347179495042noreply@blogger.com