tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post6458325903599510156..comments2023-06-07T03:40:11.408-07:00Comments on Erica Scott: Life, Love & Spanking: My strange addictionEricahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-88876510505910343982013-01-20T21:37:48.923-08:002013-01-20T21:37:48.923-08:00Lea -- I'm all about independence and space, w...Lea -- I'm all about independence and space, which is why that neediness gets me so irritable. It's counter to my intuitive way of life, dammit! :-)Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-84626774190020657192013-01-20T14:11:04.445-08:002013-01-20T14:11:04.445-08:00My first thought here is that you should stay off ...My first thought here is that you should stay off of Fetlife on Thursdays. ;-) I can kind of see where you're coming from about the need and the withdrawal. Especially after a more intense or emotionally driven spanking I get like that. I feel a bit more needy afterwards, when normally I'm pretty independent and like to have my space. Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08935712285136696225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-63117726140955475142013-01-18T16:37:19.260-08:002013-01-18T16:37:19.260-08:00I know you're right. I am who I am. Sometimes,...I know you're right. I am who I am. Sometimes, I just find myself tiresome.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-8906167378988804822013-01-18T16:35:05.026-08:002013-01-18T16:35:05.026-08:00Okay, that's your first mistake. You can'...Okay, that's your first mistake. You can't get mad at yourself for how you feel. You can CHANGE how you feel if you work on it, but when an emotion comes up, it's a natural progression from what happened earlier in the week. You know that you have this roller coaster, and you just have to deal with each hill and dip as it comes.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17080708848612373150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-49250704781347119072013-01-18T15:39:52.786-08:002013-01-18T15:39:52.786-08:00It happened. And it worked.
Missed the cell-phone...It happened. And it worked. <br />Missed the cell-phone message, though. ;-) MrJnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-58563546714594963872013-01-18T11:01:02.020-08:002013-01-18T11:01:02.020-08:00MrJ -- cell phone message? :-)MrJ -- cell phone message? :-)Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-91555955500852924782013-01-18T05:27:19.281-08:002013-01-18T05:27:19.281-08:00Erica
Not add at all, life and I also can chime in...Erica<br />Not add at all, life and I also can chime in on the head space of a lap....it is the same feeling for me when I have a lovely and caring lady over my lap...love that space totally in fact love it as much as when I am over a caring lap....that spanking bubble does work both ways. <br />Always<br />RonNjspankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07839344536156873192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-37536135397940726622013-01-18T00:00:48.615-08:002013-01-18T00:00:48.615-08:00I can see what you mean. It are indeed needs, no w...I can see what you mean. It are indeed needs, no wants (thus no bit ching). Needs express themselves even more fiercely when a regular patterns, for some reason, is broken - I mean, when the cycle gets occasionally takes more time. More specifically: tonighjt it must really happen. ;-)MrJnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-74791369361447558662013-01-17T19:23:42.622-08:002013-01-17T19:23:42.622-08:00Bobbie Jo -- very good points. I agree about "...Bobbie Jo -- very good points. I agree about "topspace" -- why would tops engage in this play if they weren't getting something out of it as well? And I totally agree that these feelings and cravings are innate. There's always the nature-vs.-nurture controversy about where kinks come from; I'm of the nature opinion.<br /><br />Ron -- I think I am my father's daughter that way. He escaped into alcohol, and I escape into spanking. Kind of odd, but the euphoria is the same. I wish he were here so I could ask him what replaced the alcohol bubble for him in his last 10 years, when he was sober.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-62207060325249380642013-01-17T19:09:45.544-08:002013-01-17T19:09:45.544-08:00Hi Erica,
Am settled so a few comments here, besi...Hi Erica,<br /><br />Am settled so a few comments here, besides your detaile spanking adventures I so love how you totally describe the head space of being spanked, just love it. Also your reveiw of where you mind is during a normal week is just fascinating and so well written, thank you for that.<br /><br />One thing we should never give away or look to escape is the spanking bubble....it is a wonderful place and honestly here, yes having a few beers or glasses of wine is sort of the same but what I love about giving or recieving a sound spanking is jst heaven, that bubble is just amazing.<br /><br />Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and mind and head space. Love it my dear.<br /><br />Always<br />RonNjspankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07839344536156873192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-7081883912123755052013-01-17T18:19:08.669-08:002013-01-17T18:19:08.669-08:00I can relate to this. I think it is part of the w...I can relate to this. I think it is part of the whole desire for not just the attention, but what comes with it: someone who cares enough to give us what we need as they receive what they need, too. It is different for a top, but there is, I believe, such a thing as "topspace." Tops have the need as we bottoms do. So we give each other that sense of trust and caring, however different.<br /><br />Imagine having never been in the scene, not even knowing there was a scene. Then the feeling comes on so strong you have to do something about it. It seems to be a craving that has always been there whether we were ever spanked or not. It is ingrained and never goes away. It can lie dormant, for a while, but eventually it comes to the surface and demands attention. Then it is we search for that someone who will meet that need. Sometimes it can be a long search. Sometimes we get fortunate.<br />Bobbie Jonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-37176362780781277042013-01-17T15:34:03.373-08:002013-01-17T15:34:03.373-08:00Anonymous -- thank YOU. Yes, it's a mini vacat...Anonymous -- thank YOU. Yes, it's a mini vacation each time; it's free, no travel hassles, no TSA. :-)Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-13439565963903771492013-01-17T15:24:04.713-08:002013-01-17T15:24:04.713-08:00Thank you for that wonderful ramble. I have alway...Thank you for that wonderful ramble. I have always admired writers and their ability to capture moments of reality. I enjoy stepping into those moments and existing there. It is truly a mini vacation. Thanks again.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-68144260981432528182013-01-17T14:36:30.914-08:002013-01-17T14:36:30.914-08:00Jen -- it's classic. Today, I feel like crap. ...Jen -- it's classic. Today, I feel like crap. And I'm mad at myself for feeling that way.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-26062257628917587882013-01-17T14:29:34.987-08:002013-01-17T14:29:34.987-08:00So Tuesday is Super Happy Fun Time, and Thursday i...So Tuesday is Super Happy Fun Time, and Thursday is Kill ALL the People. I can relate, except that I have more Thursdays than Tuesdays. LOL<br /><br />I completely understand about that drop after the spanking is over and there won't be any for a while. I also understand the craving. I go long periods of time between being spanked, especially these days, but that need doesn't actually go away.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17080708848612373150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-19196995050352402552013-01-17T13:34:21.183-08:002013-01-17T13:34:21.183-08:00Six -- thanks, but no, I wouldn't. I don't...Six -- thanks, but no, I wouldn't. I don't have the patience for it.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-28102265416475248912013-01-17T13:11:25.549-08:002013-01-17T13:11:25.549-08:00Erica, your philosophic prose is outstanding. When...Erica, your philosophic prose is outstanding. When you spew it out, it just flows to a crescendo upwards, to make your point. You would have made a good teacher in life. sixofthebestnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-74263670132180470792013-01-17T10:55:22.607-08:002013-01-17T10:55:22.607-08:00Bonnie -- you're right. Just have to wait for ...Bonnie -- you're right. Just have to wait for more! :-)<br /><br />Ron -- thanks. :-)Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-35626408649426819122013-01-17T10:52:20.126-08:002013-01-17T10:52:20.126-08:00Like your lap am on the road but love this post......Like your lap am on the road but love this post.....you described that spanking spot so eloquently!<br />More to follow<br />Thanks<br />Always<br />RonNjspankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07839344536156873192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-29057476171506729792013-01-17T04:29:27.605-08:002013-01-17T04:29:27.605-08:00Erica,
I'm also on a weekly schedule (save a ...Erica,<br /><br />I'm also on a weekly schedule (save a few welcome exceptions). I can completely relate.<br /><br />There is only one effective cure for us spankos and it's the hair of the dog... :)<br /><br />Hugs,<br />BonnieBonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-86673566737132164932013-01-16T23:34:32.635-08:002013-01-16T23:34:32.635-08:00TLB -- LOL! It was a bit of silliness with Danny t...TLB -- LOL! It was a bit of silliness with Danny that got out of hand, as most of Danny silliness does. Something about how he can't quit cold turkey because he likes the sandwiches too much.<br /><br />I actually love turkey sandwiches, but they make for a lousy substitute for spanking.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-74646571966613195592013-01-16T23:21:11.982-08:002013-01-16T23:21:11.982-08:00I feel for John, it is a lot to lose.
To save Dan...I feel for John, it is a lot to lose.<br /><br />To save Danny from the wrath of Erica, I will say it from the other side of the big pond +1500 miles- Cold Turkey sandwiches is one solution, but they are extremely hard to cope with and not always successful.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-91146833474810669372013-01-16T19:34:30.045-08:002013-01-16T19:34:30.045-08:00Kelly -- in the days before I had regular play par...Kelly -- in the days before I had regular play partners (I had them, but they were a lot more sporadic), I'd go weeks and months too. And it drove me CRAZY! I used to wish my desire would fade, but no such luck. :-)<br /><br />Jade -- perhaps strange wasn't the best word. It's certainly different, though. One doesn't usually think of spanking when one thinks of addiction, you know?Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-89167467616200113932013-01-16T16:39:08.679-08:002013-01-16T16:39:08.679-08:00Hi Erica I can relate to what you wrote, I hope th...Hi Erica I can relate to what you wrote, I hope this make's sense,Due to personal family problem's and tragedy and me being sick, i haven't been spanked in 12 year's that's a long freakin time :-( I miss it TERRIBLY i crave it everyday, I long to go to that happy place where i am safe and i can get away from reality :-( I have craved attention my whole life,when i don't get it i get very irritated. OMG i feel so sad for John that's TERRIBLE $500 dollar's is a lot of money to lose :-( I don't think your addiction is strange at all,because i have it too.Much Love and hug's from naughty girl Jadejadelyn1975https://www.blogger.com/profile/01227913685563205943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-62337762393420735202013-01-16T16:36:00.902-08:002013-01-16T16:36:00.902-08:00I would be ready to throw up on the spot if I ever...I would be ready to throw up on the spot if I ever lost that amount of money.<br /><br />I would never judge someone by how much or often they require/desire spankings. I have come to the realization that my love of spanking is deeply ingrained-will never completely diminish. But I find my desire stays stronger immediately after I've gotten spanked. But if a long time lapses like in weeks/months then my desire is typically less noticeable. I think it's a fortunate reaction for me almost like if I CAN'T have it due to financial limitations, hectic schedule, etc, then I DON'T want it. LOL! Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09006086163765646438noreply@blogger.com