tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post3427138494105812484..comments2023-06-07T03:40:11.408-07:00Comments on Erica Scott: Life, Love & Spanking: Thoughts on the caneEricahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comBlogger48125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-59991075557341352262011-01-08T10:47:25.390-08:002011-01-08T10:47:25.390-08:00i love fun caning my 'S', but fun caning i...i love fun caning my 'S', but fun caning it is. Never bare bottom, just skin tight thin jeans, stretched to bursting point. Pencil thin cane, used with wristy flicks, and used to cover the full expanse of S's ample bottom, with the more telling swishes landing on her skin fold and overhang, which have the added benefit of a sitting problem later. Some of her canings are quite lengthy, but if she can find a clear stripe on her lovely bottom 24 hours later, she picks up the cane for use on my bare bottom D.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-37271537075731463742011-01-07T13:27:47.239-08:002011-01-07T13:27:47.239-08:00I can understand that touching your toes is a hard...I can understand that touching your toes is a hard no-go area for you. Because of the stretch and the inability to wriggle I find it hurts my back more, but its a classic position, particularly in a schoolgirl scenario. My only no-go position is on my back with the legs stretched over my head. Nearly every stroke lands on the thighs. <br />Here in England a lot of girls have weak spots. At a recent spanking party nearly all the girls had them. Someone said they they were too brave for their own good, how true. That's why I hardly do any parties! <br />As other comments say, however you like the cane, being warmed up is a must. That applies to amateurs and pro's alike.<br />Hermione, just take it really gently to start with, holding one of his testicles between thumb and forefinger, is a great regulator! Only joking!Naughty Catherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05704090121562710389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-80761117505090698962011-01-07T12:47:06.579-08:002011-01-07T12:47:06.579-08:00Thank you Erica, I'm very glad that you didn&#...Thank you Erica, I'm very glad that you didn't mind my two long posts! I saw that you focused on the different ways in which a cane can be used and on the different possible experiences. That's why I wrote about my own first experience with the cane first.<br /><br />And it's great that your readers don't react as emotionally as I've seen elsewhere (“People who enjoy spankings which are more severe than the ones I enjoy are sick...”). I only wanted to add a few words about the topic of severity because I was afraid that some of the comments which I had read might make readers who don't have any personal experience with the cane think that more severe canings lead to permanent damages. I was scared by pictures and films of severe spankings for a long time and I'm still not really a fan of most of the severe clips. But I can deal much better with them since I know now that even a severe caning is bearable and that no permanent harm is done.<br /><br />What I really enjoy, though, is a caning that starts out lighter (or after a proper warm-up) and gets more severe over time. After a good warm-up and with the right scenario the cane can indeed feel rather nice (maybe challenging, but still nice)! :-)Kaelahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17108718924415630397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-57952823356560744012011-01-07T12:11:28.423-08:002011-01-07T12:11:28.423-08:00Zelle -- thanks, sweetie! Wow... I had no idea thi...Zelle -- thanks, sweetie! Wow... I had no idea this post was going to take off like it did!Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-25045067553127677092011-01-07T12:09:41.815-08:002011-01-07T12:09:41.815-08:00WOW! Congratulations on being CHROSSED ERICA!WOW! Congratulations on being CHROSSED ERICA!Zellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11494715566773544405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-19712254506178767512011-01-07T11:55:35.971-08:002011-01-07T11:55:35.971-08:00Kaelah -- oops... never mind. I see you fixed the ...Kaelah -- oops... never mind. I see you fixed the comment order while I was writing about the comments being out of order! :-D<br /><br />No worries about the length, by the way. All good.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-29009800972020588222011-01-07T11:53:31.644-08:002011-01-07T11:53:31.644-08:00Kaelah -- first of all, welcome. Second, your post...Kaelah -- first of all, welcome. Second, your posts got printed out of order, and I'm sorry about that. But most important... thank you for taking the time to write this, and to do so with such intelligence and reason. You're right, it's a very emotional topic, and the comments could have erupted into a firestorm if people posted from emotion.<br /><br />I admit to personal squeamishness about extreme play, but my intent in this blog was not to focus on that, but simply to present a view of the cane as an implement that has great potential for intense play as well as its standard reputation for severe punishment. <br /><br />Again, thank you for presenting your view so thoughtfully. I appreciate it greatly!<br /><br />Hermione -- yes indeed, he does, as you got Chrossed as well! :-)Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-19284045719468255442011-01-07T11:50:30.500-08:002011-01-07T11:50:30.500-08:00Sorry for the deleted comment, I had problems with...Sorry for the deleted comment, I had problems with blogger and my browser, so accidentally the second part of my comment was posted first. That's why I deleted it and posted both parts again, this time in the correct order...Kaelahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17108718924415630397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-35262086935932868122011-01-07T11:45:29.822-08:002011-01-07T11:45:29.822-08:00[Continued]
First of all, for all those who condem...[Continued]<br />First of all, for all those who condemn severe canings because they're not into it, please don't mix up personal preferences with moral judgements. Severe canings are safe and sane spanking play like any other form, as long as they happen between consenting adults and as long as the top is experienced and accurate enough to avoid accidental damages caused by mishits. Some people might not like it, some might even find it disgusting, but that doesn't mean that it is morally objectionable. For Ludwig and me there is a moral line where permanent damage is caused. Which isn't true for spankings like the ones shown in the Lupus films. The canes used in Singapore for real judicial punishments can produce scars, but they are much heavier than the ones used in the more severe spanking movies.<br /><br />Ludwig has received at least one much more severe spanking than the ones shown in the Lupus films (because he wanted a first hand experience of how it feels like) including broken skin which left no permanent marks. I accompanied him to a film shoot with Lupus (Ludwig was a guest top) and have met several models who shot with them. None of them has permanent marks, either.<br /><br />But I wanted a first hand experience myself because I still felt uncomfortable with the films. Vocal reactions from bottoms scare me, I'm easily scared by darker storylines and I had no idea how the models really felt during such a scene. I wanted to develop an informed opinion based on experience not on movie preferences and gut feeling. So a bit more than one year ago I asked Ludwig to give me a fifty strokes full-arm caning like the ones in the films (delivered in two sets of 25 strokes) and recorded not only the caning but also my thoughts before, during and after it. I knew that I was in safe hands because Ludwig is amazingly accurate with the cane. The strokes were on the bottom only, not even on the back of my legs because I've got a very weak skin there, so this is a hard limit for me. All I can say is that it hurt very much and that I don't like cold severe canings (starting lighter and increasing the intensity is much better). I even started to hyperventilate at one point because I didn't really know how to deal with the pain. But, as soon as the caning was over, I felt okay. I even found the scene partially erotic afterwards because it fitted into what I call my “heroine” fantasies. Thanks to a good aftercare (disinfectant, icepacks and arnica ointment) most of the marks were gone after only about two weeks. The rest of them (a slightly different colour of the skin) lasted for about some time between four and six months. In conclusion, I can understand everyone who isn't into severe spankings and broken skin, but please don't mix up taste with moral issues.<br /><br />I hope you don't mind my long comment, Erica! Thank you for bringing up that interesting topic. :-)Kaelahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17108718924415630397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-84516734773789934742011-01-07T11:44:37.895-08:002011-01-07T11:44:37.895-08:00This is a very interesting topic, Erica, and I wou...This is a very interesting topic, Erica, and I would like to throw in a few thoughts. I hope you don't mind longer comments, but I would like to make sure that no one gets me wrong because this is a rather complex and quite emotional topic.<br /><br />I've got a special relationship with the cane. It fascinated me right from the beginning because of its elegance, the beautiful marks it can produce and its reputation. I tried it right in my first play with my then friend and now beloved partner Ludwig. I had met him through his Blog Ludwig's Rohrstock-Palast (“Ludwig's caning palace” in English, you can easily guess what his favourite implement is). From his writing, the free video clips I had seen and our correspondence I knew very quickly that Ludwig was the one I trusted to introduce me into the world of erotic spanking. And that despite of the knowledge that Ludwig enjoys severe canings as well, like the ones from Lupus. Our first play, however, was of course not about severity. We had a wonderful ceremony including candles, torches, a tea ceremony and a trust fall into Ludwig's arms. Ludwig started with a hand spanking, then came a plastic paddle and finally the cane. Having never been spanked before I was afraid that I couldn't take it and would let him down. But Ludwig made it very clear to me that trying a spanking for real was very brave, that I could stop the scene any time and that he would never be disappointed. For him the whole scene was more about me than about him, anyway, even though he enjoyed the idea of introducing someone into the world of spanking very much. Ludwig gave me as much time as I wanted and needed between the different implements. He always started with light smacks and then increased the intensity. So, I was warmed up nicely when we started the caning. I was very nervous, nonetheless, and then quite surprised because it didn't hurt as much as I had expected. After a few lighter strokes Ludwig finished my initiation ceremony with several medium severe strokes. I got 25 cane strokes in total that day. It was a wonderful first experience, despite some heavier bruising, the worst of it being from the paddle, by the way. We just posted a free clip as a Christmas present for our blog readers using the scenario from our first play but with a hand spanking only. Ludwig is a movie buff and I enjoy the creative work with him which, as you can see <a href="http://rohrstockpalast.blogspot.com/2010/12/enter-dachshund.html" rel="nofollow">here</a>, if you like, is much more important to us than pure severity.<br /><br />Today most of our play as a couple ranges from rather soft to medium severe. Because even someone like Ludwig who enjoys more severe play as well, only wants to do rather severe scenes which might cause a higher degree of bruising on very rare and special occasions, for example for a special film clip. Ludwig is even more cautious than I am in our private play. But still he is into more severe spankings and especially spanking films as well, and I would like to add a few words about that because I've read some comments with which I can't agree.<br />[To be continued...]Kaelahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17108718924415630397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-352086046216101392011-01-07T11:40:41.322-08:002011-01-07T11:40:41.322-08:00Congrats on being Chrossed for this! The man has g...Congrats on being Chrossed for this! The man has great taste in blogs.Hermionehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15395671806340391253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-43472437137141470412011-01-07T11:39:44.677-08:002011-01-07T11:39:44.677-08:00This comment has been removed by the author.Kaelahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17108718924415630397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-49345595132405518242011-01-07T11:08:19.151-08:002011-01-07T11:08:19.151-08:00Alan -- I think you're right about that part, ...Alan -- I think you're right about that part, which is probably why I advocate being judicious in selecting one's cane-wielder.<br /><br />Hermione -- I'm sure if anything, Ron would err on the side of caution. It's definitely a different feeling and worth a try if you're curious.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-42069516957073220142011-01-07T10:21:04.498-08:002011-01-07T10:21:04.498-08:00I'm a cane virgin, but after reading all this,...I'm a cane virgin, but after reading all this, I admit I'm curious. Guess I'll have to find one somewhere and convince Ron to try it. Trouble is, he's never used one on anyone, and I doubt he'd read a blog post on correct caning technique. (I'm the manual/instruction reader in our house.) Oh, well, it might be fun.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />HermioneHermionehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15395671806340391253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-43509631573562519882011-01-07T08:46:33.660-08:002011-01-07T08:46:33.660-08:00"" Any paddle, strap, etc. has the poten..."" Any paddle, strap, etc. has the potential to inflict damage if the user is harsh with it. So, my point was, if the cane does nasty things, fear the caner, not the implement itself. ""<br /><br />This is true , my point is i feel its easier to get there with a cane than a strap , easier to go "to far" and u are correct , its the user that one needs to beware of !Daddyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13486408000951869899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-58043242050859639672011-01-06T21:14:12.984-08:002011-01-06T21:14:12.984-08:00Well said, Erica! As I have said, I have seen the...Well said, Erica! As I have said, I have seen the cane used and the person's bottom was pink with maybe a mark or so, but no bruising and no skin was broken. Then there are the ones who use a whip that does not cause much damage, just a welt or so, but no breaking of the skin, though a whip can really cause a lot of damage. I have seen the results of a paddle and just a rather nice pink/reddish bottom and also heavy bruising to the point the muscle was also bruised. So what is used can be stingy and turn you a nice pink or a bit on the red side or it can do damage. I think there are some tops out there who just like to be brutal. Not my forte. That is not play. I don't know what to call it, but it is not playing. Play to me is something that is fun for both and maybe a bit on the sensual side. Then when there are two people who love each other, it can get into the erotic fun and play.<br /><br />Anyway, just know who your top is, if you can trust that person, and set the limits. Then have some fun.Bobbie Jonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-86516894623513602702011-01-06T20:23:46.889-08:002011-01-06T20:23:46.889-08:00Alan -- just to play devil's advocate for a mo...Alan -- just to play devil's advocate for a moment... your first sentence could be said about ANY implement, if you think about it. Any paddle, strap, etc. has the potential to inflict damage if the user is harsh with it. So, my point was, if the cane does nasty things, fear the caner, not the implement itself.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-63317739961781401782011-01-06T19:53:17.642-08:002011-01-06T19:53:17.642-08:00For me , it seems that the cane is to easy to go f...For me , it seems that the cane is to easy to go from discipline / erotic to abuse . I dont use one and dont want to. I know there are those who like/prefer it and to each his own . I am simply stating MY feelings . Any time it goes to the point of bruising , marking etc: it loses me . Pink is one thing , marking , bruising , broken skin is another .Daddyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13486408000951869899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-550380022929508882011-01-06T19:12:18.092-08:002011-01-06T19:12:18.092-08:00Kelly, Bobbie Jo -- different people need to go to...Kelly, Bobbie Jo -- different people need to go to different places, I guess. I actually don't mind some bruising... but I cannot wrap my head around broken skin. Ever.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-84735946857357867992011-01-06T19:08:00.623-08:002011-01-06T19:08:00.623-08:00Yeowza! I guess some people can just take a lot. ...Yeowza! I guess some people can just take a lot. I think that is going just way too far even it they want it. I think light and pink is good enough. Well, maybe a bit on the red side is ok, too, but without bruising or breaking the skin. I think that should be THE limit. No bruising or breaking of the skin. Period. <br /><br />I did see one picture of a lady with her back looking like it had gone though a meat grinder. Not a cane, but a whip. to me that was just beyond over the top. It is like being in the dark ages. Maybe that is where she wanted to be at that moment. I sort of get TTWD, but not the brutal stuff.Bobbie Jonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-10117014890617655422011-01-06T15:40:21.579-08:002011-01-06T15:40:21.579-08:00I saw an extreme Spanking Tube vide last year wher...I saw an extreme Spanking Tube vide last year where a girl had already been spanked hard enough that she had to sit on a pillow prior to another segment with a caning. The girl's bottom was already red and pretty much covered with bruises. She instructed the caner to "completely" line over her whole bottom. When he was close to drawing blood he warned her but she didn't care. The cane did break skin in more than one spot.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09006086163765646438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-75201399203818978632011-01-06T13:29:42.807-08:002011-01-06T13:29:42.807-08:00Maria -- glad I could be somewhat enlightening! :-...Maria -- glad I could be somewhat enlightening! :-)<br /><br />Craig -- LOL...as far as I'm concerned, that broom handle you call an implement should be called "Caneless." :-ÞEricahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-76257772974607312322011-01-06T13:10:31.610-08:002011-01-06T13:10:31.610-08:00Though I have a few wood canes I certainly don'...Though I have a few wood canes I certainly don't favor them. I much prefer the carbon fiber cane (as you described above) which is wicked, thinner than a pencil and utterly unbreakable. I also love my rubber cane, which is pencil thin, whippy and very stingy. <br /><br />Of course I also love my THICK canes like my bamboo cane often referred to by others as the "telephone pole". I prefer the name "Canemore" because it's a cane...and more (duh).Craig Aychhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07853109320153985359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-37814986238386232542011-01-06T12:31:53.069-08:002011-01-06T12:31:53.069-08:00That was an interesting analysis to read, Erica :-...That was an interesting analysis to read, Erica :-)<br /><br />I don't have any experiences of canes, so I have very curious to read this!<br /><br />XX<br />MariaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3661741523263753420.post-77311377701157669602011-01-06T11:22:47.191-08:002011-01-06T11:22:47.191-08:00Ronnie -- I guess love-hate is a perfect descripti...Ronnie -- I guess love-hate is a perfect description! :-) <br /><br />Jade -- thanks, sweetie. Hope you're feeling better today.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.com